Can You Find Love in the Club: A Male and Female Perspective

He Said,
I personally believe that wherever two people meet, they can find love. The club is a place where people go to dance and have fun while listening to music. It is a place to go and express whatever it is that you’re feeling through bodily motions. Quiet a few people go to the club just to let loose. There are also a lot of people who go to the club with hopes of meeting someone to become closer to, and get better acquainted with. There are many ways women can attract men in the club. Eye contact can say so much more than words sometimes, and that is a perfect example. Confidence is another powerful tool that can be seen, through body language, in the club. While in the club, if a woman does not give in at first, and makes a man work for her number, a successful relationship could potentially come out of that, mainly because the man will treasure her number because of how hard he had to work for it. Another powerful tool that women can utilize in the club is self respect. A man will show respect to a woman who demands it. Use these powerful tools women, no matter where you are. Whether men realize it or not, a lot of men are looking for a woman to love, but you must demand it. Even if you are in a club, but you maintain certain expectations for the way men treat you, you will get whatever it is that you went to the club trying to find.

She Said,
I don’t know how I feel about finding love in a club. If we were to evaluate statistics the answer we find would probably be very different than my personal opinion. Although this may be true concerning finding love in the club and the possibility, I definitely think it is possible. It could be argued that I found love on Facebook, and a lot of people would say that is impossible. Love is innately unreal, unimaginable, unable to be defined, and unbelievable. So in dealing with matters of the heart, you have to believe that the unbelievable is real. While I know that it is possible to find love in the club, I also think that the likelihood of club found relationships have to be considered. The primary issue that I think should be taken into account is the fact that you can not go to a pound and expect to find dolphins. Looking at that analogy and relating it to this issue, you can not go to the club and expect to find some male or female who doesn’t like partying. The fact of the matter is if you find your potential mate in the club, you might have a “club head” on your hands. If when you picked up your man at the club he was wasted, you might have an alcoholic on your hands. But just like it’s possible to find a needle in a haystack, it’s possible to find love in the club. It would just be in your best interest to take the likelihood into consideration, before you go searching.